The New Adam Podcast w/ Man in the Mirror

Ep. 20 | The Secret to Intentional Discipleship with Robbie Angle

In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding. The conversation dives into the messy reality of parenting eight children—including two sets of twins and five adoptions—and how the "90% nature vs. 10% nurture" realization shifted his fatherhood from pressure-filled shaping to intentional stewardship. From the "last 1%" of transparency in brotherhood to the critical difference between unhurried relationship and mere productivity, Robbie offers a refreshing paradigm for any man feeling "uncontent" or paralyzed by the gap between his expectations and his reality.

Ep. 19 | Is Work a Calling and How Do I Find It

In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" through experience rather than waiting for a bolt of inspiration. From discussing the rising costs of being a young man in 2026 to the value of "second chair" leadership, the duo concludes that while the Bible doesn't necessarily label your trade as a "calling," it strictly demands excellence and character in whatever path you choose to walk.

Ep. 18 | Any Man Can Learn to Pray

For many men, prayer feels less like a conversation and more like a "scheduled conference call" that usually goes to voicemail. We want results, we want a "Plan A to Plan B" outcome, and when we don’t get an immediate response, we default to our own self-sufficiency.
In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Ryan and Brett strip away the religious formality and get real about why men find prayer so difficult. From Florida "cold snaps" and NFL loyalty to the profound lesson of a 94-year-old prayer warrior, this conversation is about moving prayer from a religious obligation to a tangible presence.

Ep. 17 | New Years and Past Mistakes in Life

As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning light that signals a need for change) and "bad guilt" (a hamster wheel of self-loathing that becomes a false identity). From Blackstone griddles and picky eaters to the humble brilliance of theologian John Frame, Ryan and Brett explore how to move from being "stuck" in past mistakes to walking in the freedom of genuine forgiveness.

Ep. 15 | My Dad Left, But He Saved Me: Overcoming Fatherlessness with Zach Garza

In this moving episode of The New Adam Podcast, hosts Ryan and Scott sit down with Zach Garza, founder of You Can Mentor and author of Tell Me About Your Father. Zach opens up about the pivotal moment in eighth grade when his father left, sparking a downward spiral of seeking affirmation in all the wrong places. He shares how a man named Bob eventually broke through his defensive walls—not with programmed advice, but by "earning the right to be heard" through years of consistent, low-pressure friendship.
The conversation dives deep into the "orphan spirit" versus the security of sonship, exploring how men who grew up without a stable father figure often struggle with a constant, "low-grade fever" of fear and the temptation to choose comfort over engagement. Zach provides practical advice for younger men seeking mentors and encourages older men to realize they have more to offer than they think. From weeping in a college Bible study to learning how to parent his own children without passing on his childhood trauma, Zach’s story is a powerful testament to how God uses "dorks," slow sanctification, and intentional brotherhood to heal the wounds of the past.

Ep. 14 | The Power of Humility in Fatherhood with Kent Evans

In this episode of the New Adam podcast, host Ryan Reeves and guest Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) reflect on the vital role of humility and intentionality in marriage and fatherhood. Kent shares the joyous news of his son's recent wedding, a high school sweetheart romance, and the subsequent realization that he was "not ready" for marriage in his early twenties, admitting to struggles with immaturity, financial irresponsibility, and truthfulness. This leads to a discussion on the adulting crisis facing young men today, as well as the importance of older men modeling an exemplary, humble faith, an example too often missing. They challenge the "bad theology" that convinces men they have nothing to offer, urging them to embrace their experiences and gifts. Ryan and Kent conclude by highlighting a key marriage priority that has kept Kent's 30-year relationship strong: the shared, consistent study of scripture.

Ep.13 | New Ideas to Reach Men in 2026 with Todd McIntyre

In this vital episode of The New Adam Podcast, host Ryan welcomes Todd McIntyre, Senior Executive Pastor at Victory Church in Norcross, GA, to discuss fresh, unconventional strategies for engaging men in faith and community in the coming year. Todd shares the powerful and surprising insights gained from initiatives that successfully re-engaged men who had previously drifted from the church. The conversation moves beyond traditional approaches, focusing on the remarkable impact of creating authentic, experience-driven connections—like the catalytic effect of Harley-Davidson partnerships and community meals—that resonated deeply with a broader male audience. Listeners will gain valuable, practical takeaways and an inspired, non-traditional framework for building a vibrant, Christ-centered men's ministry that focuses on the experience over the expected.

Ep.12 | Gandalf Isn't Coming (Why Mentors Fail Us)

We all long for the "Swiss Army knife" mentor, a perfect, all-knowing sage like Gandalf, Dumbledore, or Obi-Wan Kenobi. But Episode 12 of the New Adam podcast, featuring Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer (celebrating his 25th anniversary at Man in the Mirror), argues that this pursuit leads to disappointment. Instead of looking for a single, flawless figure with "secret knowledge" to guide every aspect of your life, the key is to adopt a "tool-for-the-job" approach to mentorship. After assessing specific deficiencies in areas like career, marriage, and finances, men should seek out multiple, imperfect mentors-the hands, ears, and feet of the body of Christ-each gifted in a particular area to offer targeted wisdom, even if that means consulting a book or simply avoiding the mistakes of a counter-example.

Ep.11 | What Midlife Feels Like

Midlife hits every man differently, sometimes suddenly, sometimes slowly, and often in ways we don’t expect. In this episode, Ryan and Brett have an honest conversation about what it actually feels like to realize you’re not a kid anymore. From the moment your body stops keeping up, to the shifting expectations of work, marriage, identity, and spiritual growth, they unpack the subtle transitions, the disappointments, the dangers, and the surprising gifts of this stage of life. Together they explore how midlife reveals cracks we’ve ignored, exposes where we’ve placed our identity, and invites us into deeper humility, wisdom, and dependence on God. If you’ve ever felt the strange, surreal tension of getting older, physically, vocationally, or spiritually, this episode will meet you right where you are.

Ep.10 | The Benefits and Challenges of Homeschooling

Continuing their deep dive into the world of non-traditional education, Ryan and Brett explore the fundamental "benefits and challenges" of homeschooling. Building on Ryan's family's experience, the hosts offer a balanced look at the core advantages, such as providing a truly personalized education, fostering deeper family bonds, and navigating the increasingly complex social issues of modern schooling. They also tackle the common obstacles, including managing the significant time commitment, the potential for parental burnout, and addressing the persistent myth of "socialization." Ryan details how his family overcame these hurdles by utilizing co-ops and support networks, providing actionable insight for parents considering or currently engaged in the journey of raising and teaching their children outside of a traditional classroom.