The New Adam Podcast w/ Man in the Mirror

Ep.9 | Why You Might Homeschool

In this episode of the New Adam podcast, Ryan and Brett dive into Ryan's personal story and rationale behind his decision to homeschool his children. Prompted by early negative experiences in public kindergarten, including a lack of parental involvement and exposure to inappropriate language, Ryan and his wife made the pivot to a flexible, hybrid homeschooling approach. They discuss the advantages of having a customized schedule, the challenges faced by the primary caregiver, the critical role of the father as a disciplinary figure and subject-matter resource, and the vital support gained from a strong homeschool community. Ultimately, they reflect on how homeschooling provided a more holistic, personalized, and engaged educational environment that prepared their kids for life and fostered stronger family relationships, offering a compelling alternative to increasingly difficult public school systems.

Ep.8 | Update from Man in the Mirror Asia

In this episode of "The New Adam Podcast with Man in the Mirror", Brett and Ryan discuss Brett's recent whirlwind trip visiting Man in the Mirror Asia. Brett shares stories and observations from five countries, highlighting the growth and impact of the ministry in diverse cultural and religious settings. In Malaysia, the ministry is thriving with over 50 groups using the "My Journey" curriculum. Indonesia showcases a powerful multi-generational partnership to disciple Christian men, where local translation of materials is key. The trip to China reveals the great cost and quiet joy of Christianity in a restrictive environment, contrasting the faith's deeply personal value there with its ease in the West. Finally, the visit to Nepal underscores the vast needs and impactful, cost-effective nature of ministry, where local Christians, including the head of Evangelism Explosion Nepal, are joyfully strengthening men's faith despite economic hardship and social pressure. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that men's core issues and desire for authentic Christian community are universal, regardless of culture or country.

Ep.7 | The Generational Gap between Men Today is Wild

On this New Adam Podcast episode, host Ryan Reeves sits down with Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) and Scott Mawdesley (Man in the Mirror’s Spiritual Fathers and Dads on Tap) to talk about raising kids and what shaped their vision of manhood. From high school days in ’88, ’91, and ’96 to parenting teens and twenty-somethings today, they reflect on mentors, church life, and the shift from occasional news to always-on social feeds. They ask what young men really need now, why many crave straight talk and wise counsel, and how fathers and mentors can step in with presence, clarity, and faith-anchored guidance. It is a candid, practical conversation for dads and leaders who want to invest in the next generation.

Ep.6 | Setting Your Family Culture as a Dad

In this episode of the New Adam podcast, "Setting Your Family Culture as a Dad," hosts Ryan, Scott, and Brett discuss the challenges of fatherhood. They explore the idea that many dads feel more like "chaos managers" than "culture builders". The conversation covers topics such as creating a "safe" and predictable home environment, navigating the challenges of raising children in the modern world, and the importance of allowing kids to face and overcome struggles. The hosts share personal stories and insights on teaching kids to cope with a "broken world," take on new challenges, and develop a healthy respect for authority figures. They also touch on the delicate balance of giving kids a voice while maintaining parental authority, and the long-term goal of raising adults, not just children.

Ep.5 | Same Calling, New Chaos. Fathering in a Changing World

In the episode "Same Calling, New Chaos: Fathering in a Changing World," hosts Ryan and Brett are joined by guest Jeremy to discuss the rapidly changing landscape of fatherhood. They share personal stories and concerns about raising children in a world dominated by technology, social media, and constant exposure to new information. The conversation covers the challenges of protecting and providing for children when external influences can infiltrate the home, from the dangers of online games like Roblox to the impact of modern media on a child's psyche. They also explore the changing nature of cultural conversations, touching on topics like gender identity and the lack of strong male role models in media. Ultimately, they conclude that while a father's core instincts to protect and provide remain the same, the strategies for doing so must evolve to meet the unique challenges of the modern world.

Ep. 4 | Being a Humble Father

In the episode "Being a Humble Father," hosts Ryan and Brett have a candid and vulnerable discussion about the struggles of fatherhood. They share personal stories, including Ryan's experience with feeling overwhelmed and Brett's account of accidentally hurting his daughter. They explore the societal pressure on men to project an image of perfect competence, and how this can lead to shame and emotional disengagement. The guys emphasize that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to admit mistakes, highlighting the importance of apologizing to children and seeking a supportive community. They conclude that a father's integrity is a critical lesson he can teach his kids, as it models accountability and healthy emotional expression.

Ep. 3 | Parenting Blended Families

In this insightful episode of "The Man in the Mirror," we tackle the unique challenges and rewarding journey of parenting in a blended family. Host and special guest, Rob, share his personal experiences, providing honest advice on navigating the delicate balance of a stepparent, addressing discipline, and handling co-parenting with a former spouse. We explore the emotional landscape of stepping into a parental role for non-biological children and the importance of grace and patience. Tune in for an honest conversation about effective communication, creating a "parallel parenting" model, and the key to choosing your battles to build a strong, cohesive family. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance and encouragement on their blended family journey.

Ep. 2 | Being Real with Your Kids: Say the Awkward

A Dad's Journey: From Unprepared to Present
In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the journey of fatherhood with guest Brett. The conversation begins with the joy of a new grandchild and the unique experience of watching your own child become a parent. Brett shares a vulnerable story about the initial surreal feelings of holding his first newborn and the realization that a father’s love often grows with time and intentionality, rather than being an immediate, overwhelming feeling.
We discuss the difference between a physical presence and a true emotional presence in parenting, and how a father’s role is to not just protect, but to guide his children through life's challenges. The episode emphasizes the importance of making time for small, consistent interactions—from shared hobbies and car rides to simply sitting down for dinner—as these "along the way" conversations are often the most meaningful. We explore the tough but necessary choice to let kids make their own mistakes, learn to communicate their thoughts, and develop resilience. Finally, we touch on the generational gap in parenting styles and the vital role of a father in teaching integrity and moral reasoning. This is a must-listen for any dad navigating the complexities of raising children in today's world.

Ep. 1 | Fatherhood and Being Present

Work, Worth, and the Dangers of a "Grindset"
Join us for a candid conversation about the challenges of work-life balance and the deeper struggle for identity. In this episode, we explore the pitfalls of a "workaholic" mindset, a journey often fueled by a self-imposed sense of guilt and the pressure to constantly achieve.
On this episode, Brett Clemmer, President/CEO at Man in the Mirror shares a deeply personal story about building a company, sacrificing time with his family, and the painful but necessary wake-up call that forced him to re-evaluate his priorities. The discussion unpacks the idea that our identity should not be rooted in what we do, but rather in who we are called to be—a loving spouse, an engaged parent, and a person with purpose. We reflect on how sacrificing for those we love is not a sign of weakness, but a profound act of grace, and how our true identity is found in relationships, not professional success.